How Can You Ask the Tarot How Someone Feels About You?

If you’ve been looking for ways to gain insight into your relationship, you may have heard about tarot. Originally, tarot was an Italian card game that has since become a spiritual practice and a tool for divination. But despite their long history and widespread use, tarot cards can also be misunderstood. Here are a few things you need to know about the tarot before you ask it how someone feels about you!

First, tarot is not for everyone. It isn’t a diagnostic tool for mental health issues and it can be inappropriate for certain medical conditions, especially those with active symptoms like paranoia or psychosis. It’s a good idea to speak with a doctor before trying it, Manduley says.

You should also be cautious of tarot readers who claim to be mind readers, as they often can’t truly read the other person’s emotions. This can lead to you being creeped out, stalked or even lied to.

To avoid these problems, tarot reader Nicole Fortunaso advises asking questions that are open-ended and are not too specific. That way, the tarot can give you useful insights that will help you in your life and not just tell you what’s going to happen.

When it comes to love, tarot has some pretty clear messages about where your relationships are headed and what you should expect. You’ll find a wide range of cards in a love reading, from the Lovers (upright), which can suggest that you have major choices to make or a dilemma, to the Hermit (reversed) and The Tower, both of which signify a breakup.

A three-card spread is another common reading for a love-themed tarot session. The reader shuffles and pulls three cards that represent the past, present, and future.

The past and present are usually represented by the two first cards pulled, while the future is usually represented by the third card. For example, the third card could be a future date or it might just mean that the situation will continue to unfold in a certain way.

Using tarot for mental health:

Because of the deep symbolic meanings associated with each card, using tarot can sometimes get in the way of people’s well-being and lead them to misinterpret the cards or use them to confirm pre-existing biases, Sansone-Braff warns. This is especially true for patients who are undergoing psychiatric treatment or have a mental illness that can bring up symptoms like paranoia, psychosis, or obsessive-compulsive behaviors.

It’s also important to avoid asking tarot readers for answers that are too specific or that require you to do something. These questions can be triggering and shaming, and will only serve to keep you from making better decisions for yourself in the future, Fortunaso adds.

You should always ask for a reading that will help you gain clarity and understanding about your situation. That’s why tarot is a great spiritual tool that can guide you in your own personal journey to self-discovery and happiness, Fortunaso adds.